Sailing gives me so much hope and happiness, but even in the most beautiful places it is hard to be happy with my horrible ex-husband keeping me away from my daughter after he was so abusive. Has been nearly 3 years. Money sadly trumps it all and I miss Amelia every day. Been trying to get work done but very unhappy. Alex Kraus is the devil.
Century Club: Catherine Tobin Kraus
Remote work? Nah, I prefer 'reboat work.' I wasn’t made to fit the mold—I was made to shatter it, sail beyond it, and dream big. I hope you all dream big for 2025!!! Thanks to STARLINK
Spent 1/6 doing a ton of "remote work" thanks to starlink. Got in a little workout and my boyfriend just took the dingy to go get us a pizza.
Spent some time reading my new book "empty mansions" on the bow with my dog Hope watching the beautiful Bequia Princess Margaret beach in front of us. Pretty jealous of the new Gunboat that came in.
A normal sunday funday would be filled with friends, but our good friends left for Grenada yesterday:( so feeling a tad lonely.
I started a new book today called "Empty Mansions", spent some time working and writing (I am wrapping up a book I will publish in the next few weeks) and now my boyfriend is grilling chicken for us (it can be hard with all the wind).
Pic of the day shows a so-so sunset but also our solar panels-I love that we have such a low carbon footprint!!!
Brownies in the oven now will make for a yummy dessert while we watch a movie tonight. I like always fall asleep by 9 or 930. They say 9pm is a cruisers midnight and I agree. I love my sleep!!!
Sat was a very chill day in Bequia. I finished another book (called Devil's on the Deep Blue sea) which I had gotten at Peake's marina for free in Trinidad. My dog Hope begged endlessly for affection (as per usuallu). We were at anchor.
On 1/3, my boyfriend and I spent our day working remotely while anchored off of Bequia. I kicked off a new client engagement and had calls with people in Georgia (the country), Texas and New York. Starlink is amazing!
We had a wonderful dinner at the Fig Tree restaurant which is a beautiful open air place in Bequia. There was live music and my favorite thing-books!!! I love that so many islands have free book exchanges and swapped out for 4 "new books".
Jan 2nd was a new kinda fun. Yuri Milner's megayacht was anchored next to me. He runs DST global which is a venture capital fund. So I printed a pitch deck for my client who would love to have an investment from DST and then took the dingy and dropped off the printed pitch deck. Then I sent it on to DST via email. But it was way more fun to do a dingy delivery!!!
Happy New Year! I spent New years eve on my boat Purrfection in Bequia in St. Vincent and the Grenadines and watched the fireworks and just woke up. Always happy to wake up in blue water! Today will participate in "floatie" races with other cruisers. Should be fun!
"I Refuse to Tie a Bowline” (Confessions from the Spinsheet Century Club 2024 Co-Leader)
I have a secret: I spend my life on a boat, and I refuse to tie a bowline. Yes, I know it’s sacrilege to admit this in the sailing world, but after my ex-husband made me tie one as part of our wedding vows (seriously), only to leave me via email years later (and then never talk to me again), I decided I was done with that knot forever. Many other knots work. Frank Sinatra’s My Way might as well be my anthem, because I’ve been racing, cruising, and now living aboard on my own terms.
Living on the water wasn’t a spontaneous leap, but it wasn’t meticulously planned either. For years, I raced and cruised out of Annapolis and elsewhere in the world (Europe, Canada and other parts of the US), blending the thrill of competition with laid-back cruising with friends using the Chesapeake Boat Club boats. In 2015, I joined the Spinsheet Century Club, pushing myself to spend 100 days on the water. Fast forward to 2024, and here I am—a full-time liveaboard with my boyfriend (an electrical engineer and software developer) and our golden retriever, Hope, who provides as much emotional ballast as she does adorable antics.
Cole Brauer: Breaking the “Rules”
My inspiration to fully embrace this lifestyle comes in part from sailors like Cole Brauer, who proved that you don’t need to follow the so-called “rules” of sailing to live your dream. Her unapologetic approach—whether it's how she handles her boat or her life—resonates deeply with me. Sailing is about freedom, not rigid expectations, and too many people wait for the “perfect time” to start. Spoiler: there’s never a perfect time. Leap before you’re ready. My watermaker’s broken as I write this, but guess what? I’m still out here, living my best life.
From the USVI to Trinidad: A Year of Adventure
This year began in the U.S. Virgin Islands, toasting New Year’s in St. John’s Coral Bay. Between St. John, St. Thomas, and St. Croix, the Caribbean became a playground of discovery. Dinghy rides to visit my doctor—who lives on his boat—became a quirky yet practical way to handle appointments. Culebrita off Culebra was a slice of untouched paradise, and I couldn’t believe how empty it was.
The summer saw us island-hopping to St. Martin, St. Barths (beautiful but pricey), Dominica, and the stunning Pitons of St. Lucia. Tobago Cays in St. Vincent and the Grenadines stole my heart, with its crystal-clear waters and abundant marine life. Not every stop was magical—Grenada was a low point thanks to a bout of dysentery—but Trinidad redeemed itself with its vibrant culture and hidden gem islands.
Joy, Hope, and Starlink
Through it all, I’ve been working remotely, using Starlink to stay connected with companies and clients around the world. It’s a juggling act but so very worth it and frankly I am doing better than ever professionally (I help companies all over the world raise equity and grow), but it’s worth it. Sailing has taught me that life’s joy isn’t in perfection (although my boat is named Purrfection); it’s in the moments you seize—messy, unpredictable, and beautiful.
Hope, my golden retriever, embodies that spirit. Whether she’s lounging in the cockpit or chasing fish off the dinghy, she reminds me daily to find joy in the little things.
Sailing Is Hope
My journey this year is about hope—hope for new horizons, second chances, and the courage to do things your way. If I’ve learned anything, it’s that life is too short to wait for perfect conditions. Get out there, make your own rules, and tie whatever knot you want—or none at all.
So here’s to another year of breaking rules, finding joy, and leaping before you’re ready. See you on the water.
St barths jan 2023
St martin jan 2023
Culebra jan 2023
Vieques jan 2023
Chesapeake bay august and sept 2023
St thoms, st john october-dec 2023